Tuesday 30 September 2014

GONE TOO SOON



GONE TOO SOON
“Death be not proud,” a famous poet by the name John Donne once wrote. That Malachi Oguma is now no more is disheartening. It borders on unbelievable. He was a friend, a brother and a role model all rolled in one. He made an impact in my life though we did not spend much time together. He embodied patience, hard work and humility, virtues that are hard to come by.
Malachi, you made me who I am today even though I never had a chance to tell you so. You made me learn the value of humility and perseverance. However bad things were, you always wore a smile. You told us that no condition is permanent and that no matter how hot water is, it will eventually be cold.
I took your words like religion. I always smile even when I am supposed to wail. It makes the problem seem like just a challenge that we have to contend with in life. Whenever I am faced with a problem I put on a smile and embark on a solution. This is a value that is hard to personify let alone maintain. It has been years but I still remember our time together.
Remember the days you were our choir master. You put me to sing while others thought that was impossible.  I sang alto with the ladies as that was where my voice could fit. You made the experience worthwhile even though the boys thought I was crazy singing alto. I wish you were here to hear my baritone voice. I am now grown up and can belt out bass or baritone. Look how fast time has flown!
Do you remember when all fell apart? When you left and the home came crumbling afterwards? You gave us comfort that all will be well. And to your words, I am now in the university and very soon will be somebody in the society. I will not be present to pay my last respect as you return to the soil but I want you to know that we will miss you so much and you were a person I looked up to for inspiration.
As you go, please greet for me those I hold dear in my heart and mind. Tell them to keep looking at me and also that I am in the process of making them proud. I know you are bound for the heavenly choir and you will continue the good deeds that you have done in this earth.
May your soul rest in eternal peace as soil returns to soil.

Thursday 25 September 2014

IF NOT NOW, IT IS RIGHT NOW



IF NOT NOW, IT IS RIGHT NOW
There is time for everything. Time to laugh and time to cry as the good book, the Bible, says in Ecclesiastes. This is the time to say enough is enough. The time has now reached for the people of Nyanza especially South Nyanza to chart a way forward – a way out of poverty, negative politics and underdevelopment.
Watching Miguna Miguna read some statistics from a research carried out by Synovate on Jeff Koinange Live sprung me into action. Miguna talked facts that most of us do not want to be touched or just take for granted. The Odinga family has made Nyanza lag behind in almost everything.  Their politics of dogmatism, intolerance and mass sycophancy is stinking. It is time to look at ways to get out of this quagmire once and for all.
Miguna said it clearly that Raila is chasing a mirage; there is nothing near the truth as that statement. Raila will never be president of Kenya. The Odinga family made a mistake and they are hell bent to drag many people into their failings. Oginga Odinga had the chance to be a president but threw it away. Raila had a realistic chance of being a president in 2007 and followed exactly what his father did. Kenya politics is very dirty. It is not defined by ideology or economic determinants; it is through primitive tribalism and betrayals. People do make mistakes but what matters is whether they learn from such mistakes. Raila seems to not have learnt a lesson and he never learns from his mistakes. This is why he will never be on that house on the hill as its occupant.
Nyanza is lagging behind in development, be it political, social or economical. This is down to one family which has dominated Luo Nyanza for decades. We have known no development except de-development. Nyanza used to lead in academics; this is a thing of the past now. The region is now experiencing high school drop outs as never seen before, academic performance has hit all time low and poverty is part and parcel of most families in the region. We have never benefited from our politicians when they have been in influential positions.
We are nowadays ranked in the bracket of North Eastern in terms of academics and not with Nairobi and Rift Valley as it used to be. We are leading in mortality rates due to malnutrition and HIV/AIDS. Politically we have been pushed to the back banners. Do you remember the days of Robert Ouko, Tom Mboya, Achieng’ Aloice and other politicians from Nyanza who were endowed intellectually? What we see nowadays are politicians who have no development agenda but just sycophants who hang on Raila Odinga for political lifeline. Most of these politicians have done nothing in their constituencies and counties. They are not wanted by the people and it always takes the intervention of Raila for them to sneak into the elective positions they hold.
We have tried to breed a species of progressive politicians but to no success. All these have been thwarted by people close to the Odinga family. How many politicians have successfully floored these sycophants but to only realize that their nomination forms are no more? Many have tried to bring development but in turn have been called names. Talk of Raphael Tuju, Dalmas Otieno and others. This is a retrogressive kind of politics practiced by those who claim to be championing for democracy. Why can’t we he be tolerant to divergent views and political course?
Let us not pretend Luo Nyanza is suffering from poverty in the same manner as the arid areas of Turkana, Samburu and North Eastern. Luos talk of pride and this is what will take them to the grave at a higher rate than it is doing now. We give birth to many children but most die before puberty. We still hold on to archaic cultural practices which make death the end result. We will never be able to summon numbers to be relevant in Kenya politics and that is the fact.
We have held plum dockets in the government but have not used them to bring development to our people. These politicians have only used these positions to benefit their relatives at the expense of those who elected them. Tell me how many Luos are now heads of government parastatals or big firms? We have the gift of academic excellence but it is not helping us. Our leaders instead of helping have made it harder for us so that they can continue perpetuating negative politics and hold dominance over us. How many graduates from Nyanza are either unemployed or doing menial jobs while those from Central Kenya are holding big positions with average education? They are many and this is because they know how to play their cards well and they are also helped by their leaders who are visionary and progressive.
It is time we face the truth and start afresh by correcting our past mistakes. Let us do away with the Odinga family and try to chart our political future away from their type of politicking. We can use Kisii leaders as a close example. They go to where they can get help and that is translated in their region and people developing. Kisii’s are probably the second or third richest tribe in Kenya. We want a new generation of leaders who will be tolerant to divergent views while at the same time development oriented.
The time to come out of our lull is now. Let us show the world our true worth and stop engaging in theatrics in the name of pride. When push comes to shove we cannot eat pride or playing opposing politics. It is time for each one of us to take a forefront role in reclaiming our past and ensure posterity.
How many universities are in Central or Rift Valley and how many are in Nyanza, Coast or Western? How many kilometers of road are tarmacked in Central or Rift Valley? Compare that to ones in Nyanza, Coast and Western. Look at the poverty index and death rates due to diseases in these selected areas and take your time to see a common denominator of these two brackets.  This is a call for change – KAMA SI SASA NI SASA HIVI.

Wednesday 24 September 2014

LOVE THAT ENDURES



LOVE THAT ENDURES
I shall verily return one day
To where my heart knows home
Where love gives my lips rhythm
To express pulsating and riveting joy.

In this thing fondly called love
We eternally expect much to happen
When in essence we do not lay a haven,
A sturdy ground for true love to thrive.

I wish one day to go to the place
Where smitten lovers relish to enjoy
To hear sweet sonorous voice in company
And let the emotions flow happily in grace.

I want to enjoy the thrills of her grip
As our love is no castle built in the sand
That cannot forever tests of time stand
As I enjoy her warm words so deep.

I would want the flames to keep burning
Giving light and direction to feelings of love
As we forever keep our emotions alive
Keeping it playing like a sweet classic song.

Absence makes the heart go yonder
So please stay by my side in all times
Even when the tides of life hit high notes
Whether the storm and not surrender.

After the storm has passed and new day call
We shall in arms grace the aisle to the pulpit
Exchanging everlasting vows never to part
But live forever as one family in one soul.








Tuesday 23 September 2014

NOT YET CHAMPIONS



NOT YET CHAMPIONS
It is still early to start popping champagne bottles for championship. To borrow from the doyen of opposition politics, the late Oginga Odinga, it is not yet Uhuru fans of Gor Mahia. Gor fans should be aware of these words and play the guarded game. If their memories are still clear then 2012 season can be used as a reminder against naming a child before it is born.
There is no denying that currently Gor Mahia holds an advantage over other contenders to the throne. Sofapaka and Tusker look like they have a stomach to take the fight till the end whereas Ulinzi and Chemelil are just pretenders, but they need to take it one step at a time.
Looking at the remaining fixtures for the three contenders there is a cause for concern. Gor Mahia seems to have the hardest run in. They have to face Bandari, City Stars, Mathare United, Sofapaka, Muhoroni Youth and KRA. City Stars, Mathare and Sofapaka will be hard nuts to crack going by the recent results against those teams. The other teams will be looking to avoid relegation fight.
Tusker has Ulinzi, Mathare, Muhoroni Youth, KRA, Thika and Sofapaka. This may seem hard on paper but with the tactical ingenuity of Francis Kimanzi, nothing can be ruled out. He knows Kenya Premier League better than Frank Nuttal and knows how each team should be approached. He is good at motivating his players and squeezing every ounce of energy from them. Tusker also seems to have a complete squad with no areas to point for weakness.
Sofapaka on the other hand has Sony Sugar, KRA, Gor, AFC Leopards and Tusker to navigate. These are big teams but going by recent results, Sofapaka are high on confidence and they seem to grind out results every time they play. It will be hard for them but they only have five matches to play and enjoy an advantage of a big squad.
Gor has a point lead on Sofapaka and a game at hand but this does not carry much until it is played. There is cause for optimism but it should be treated with the caution it deserves lest some fans die from heart attack.
Gor’s achilles heel lies in attack. Without Sserunkuma, Gor suffers against its opponents. If a team marks the talisman then most of the time Gor manages at best a draw.  The defense is also a point of concern. Musa Mohammed and Jerim Onyango are like time bombs waiting to explode. You never know when Musa will cause a penalty or when Jerim will make a blunder that robs the team all three points or two points.
This is the time to support the team and lift their spirits to unprecedented heights. We also need to delay title talk so that pressure does not creep into the team. It will be a tight run in that any team will need to guard against premature celebrations.
We have the title in hand, but we should focus to the tape lest it drops on the way.

Wednesday 17 September 2014

A PASTOR'S GUIDE TO A GOOD WIFE



A PASTOR’S GUIDE TO A GOOD WIFE
My pastor last Saturday delivered a powerful sermon. It was a sermonette to be precise. It was as short as a mini skirt yet long enough to cover the essential details. He was talking about relationships and marriage at large. Rather than lead by example, he was the example. He gave us his story while in university in the form of this anecdote.
“While at the university, I was doing a programme known as work-study. It involves working for the school while studying. I was cleaning toilet and attending to school farm. I was weather beaten and not smartly dressed. I was called toilet man. I never had a girlfriend as no girl would date a toilet cleaner. After completing my university, I joined Karura where one day I met a lady who gave me a chance. After a while I had turned around my life and was now wearing suits. Some other girls who avoided me like a plague while in the university came streaming back. My head was turned a bit but when I examined myself I said I belong to the one who loved me when I was nobody. The girl is now my wife,” he said cutting a long story short.
After this heart retching story, he gave us an example from the Bible of the parameters to follow when choosing a wife. The story was of Isaac. When Isaac was of age Abraham set out to search for a bride who matched his son. He put down four markers to consider before settling on a wife for his son.
First was character. The mental and moral qualities distinctive to an individual and can be used in the identification of the person is what we call character. A lady has to be of good character to be made a wife. If she is the one who people sigh when describing then she is not fit to be one. The one you are told to marry at your own risk or ‘just marry her maybe you can change her.’ She has to be of irreproachable and unquestionable morals. The one men fear to approach because they know she is not a matatu to be boarded at will. She must respect her body as it is a temple of the Lord and must also respect her husband.
Personality was his second parameter. Personality has to deal with individual differences among people in behavior patterns, cognition and emotion. Is her personality rubbing people off or contagious? A woman has to be of admirable personality one that people want to model their children after. She has to be determined, hardworking and witty.  She has to be able to build her home and elevate it higher among the many. She must possess a big heart to welcome any visitor as this is a blessing.
Third was family background. When Rebecca brought water to Isaac he was pleased but he wanted to know more. He asked her whose daughter she was. When she said she was the daughter of Bethuel, Isaac bowed low and praised the Lord. Bethuel was known all over for his welcoming heart and strictness. A lady’s background matters a lot. She must be from a family that is known for their good deeds not bad ones lest you marry a woman who will turn you into a thief, witch or night runner.
Religious faith came in fourth. A woman should profess the same religion as her man. It matters a lot as there are circumstances where religion will bring differences. You should all either be Christians or Muslims. She must also be ready to follow you in case of one being a protestant and the other a catholic.
These were the guiding principles that led Isaac to Rebecca. She was from a far away land. We have not seen Abraham mentioning factors like tribe, financial stability, good looks and the other infatuations that this new generation is occupied with.
He ended the sermon by urging all men and women to love their partners in better and bad times. To the youths he urged them to use the four above guidelines and they will never go wrong.